Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Hospital Visit & 32 Weeks

I haven't had a chance to post much lately and it hasn't been due to lack of excitement at our house! Unfortunately we've had a little too much excitement - especially for this pregnant lady.

To start off with a positive note... Rob officially graduated with his Bachelors in Interdisciplinary Studies at the beginning of August from Arizona State University. There is no commencement ceremony in the summer time so we held a small family party for him to celebrate his achievement. He's pretty much put himself through school on his own, served a mission, joined the army, worked full time the whole time he was in school, provided for a family, started a business, changed his major 3 times, and has more credits than any person should have... so it took him longer than others but he's done and we both are very happy to be finished. He'll start his Masters degree at Grand Canyon University next week so he's not done yet but it's an online program and we're looking forward to that part.

Last week Rob came home from work having a really hard time breathing. We have a Nebulizer at home so he did a couple of treatments but it wasn't working. He wasn't really responding to anything and couldn't really tell me how bad he was feeling. I kept suggesting we go to the hospital but he wasn't really responding much. Thankfully I was prompted to call his parents over to help and also request a blessing for him. His parents and brother showed up a little bit later and quickly realized that they needed to get him to the hospital. After the blessing, they managed to practically carry him to the car and get him to the emergency room. I stayed home with Ellie while he was treated at the ER and they struggled getting his breathing under control and finally decided to admit him to the hospital about 2 a.m. Looking back it was amazing how calm I was able to stay when Rob came really close to not even making it through the night if he hadn't of made it to the hospital. Turns out his breathing problem was a result of a lot of bad things happening at once. He somehow punctured a hole in his lung (we think from breaking his ribs at one point), then he was diagnosed with valley fever (a lung disease) and then his asthma on top of it all. After a few days in the hospital, the doctors let him come home. It was an experience I never want to repeat and I'm so grateful for all the prayers that were answered over the course of last week, that Rob is feeling better, and for all the people that were willing and able to help us. It's really made me grateful for many, many things!

In other news, I'm at 32 weeks.... only 8 more weeks to go! I feel like I've grown a ton in size the last few weeks and I know that's what is supposed to happen but it's another reason why the 3rd trimester is so hard. That and all the other fun parts like breathing difficulty, sleeping difficulty, etc.

But I'm trying to enjoy the days of just having one child and getting lots of play time in with Ellie. She got a set of pretend play food after she stayed "dry" for 3 days in a row and we are constantly making "munch" in her play kitchen. She can be entertained with the food for hours! Even if I do find play food all around the house these days. And she insists that I sit on the ground to play with her and some days I wonder if I'll be able to pull myself back up again. And we spend LOTS of time reading. She's always loved being read to but it seems to have increased lately and is at the point where she can "read" her favorite books to me. She's even asked to go to the library so we can get more books to read. And of course the falling asleep in crazy positions is continuing! It just makes me realize that we had a good day of fun when I catch her in these poses.

11 comments:

LaurenOpie said...

Holy moly girl! That's crazy for Rob. Glad to hear he's okay now. It is a crazy feeling realizing these are the last weeks with just one child.

Claire said...

I'm glad Rob is doing better... has he been back at work, or just relaxing and taking it easy at home? Your belly is so cute!! You are still TINY! Lucky girl. I hope I look like that at 32 weeks. :D

Christina MC said...

SO glad Rob is doing better. We need to get together before you become house bound...

Brenda said...

Congratulations on school! It sounds like it was a big accomplishment.
Glade Rob is feeling better. Hope the next visit to the hospital is the delivery of your baby girl... in 8 weeks.

The Hall's said...

You guys always seem to have lots of excitement at your house! Whew...glad Rob is feeling better. Congratulations to all of you for the recent graduation!

Good luck over the next few weeks...try to keep the excitement to a dull roar at your house so that baby stays in there! :)

Jessica said...

breathing problems are so scary! i'm glad you have family in the area to be able to help out. i hope the last 8 weeks fly by for you!

Andrew, Amy, Evelyn& Owen said...

Wow, I'm really glad things turned out ok. That must have been pretty scary for you. No one likes to see a loved one go through something like that. On a good note, Ellie is so dang cute!

Michelle said...

I am glad that things have calmed down at your house!! Hopefully Rob continues to feel better and that you don't get any more excitement until the baby comes!

Rachel said...

That is so stressful! I'm glad you were able to remain calm and that things worked out well!

Cami Johnston said...

That's all so crazy! We hope you guys are doing well!

Terra said...

Wow, we're really glad that Rob is doing better now! And on top of the week you had before, that must be really tough for your whole family. You're amazing!